STRATEGIES FOR PROACTIVE LIVING
Commit Yourself to Proactive Living.
- Commit Yourself to Proactive Living: This is the only life you have.
Life isn't a dress rehearsal. Life is not a spectator sport! Make an agreement
with yourself that you are not going to sit this one out, commit to being a
participant, not an observer.
- Identify Past Successes: Make a list of significant moments in your
life where you took the initiative to do what God wanted you to do. That was
in the past and you felt great about it; Today is the 1st day of the rest of
your life. Make a list of what you want to accomplish, set priorities, and
do it!
- Don't Make Excuses: accept personal responsibility. Excuses keep
you from doing what God wants you to do. Excuses keep us from becoming the
kind of person that God wants us to be.
For example, is there 1) a health challenge
you're not addressing, 2) a relationship
that's not healthy, 3) a home full of junk
that's interfering with productive living?
If you are not being proactive in life
then you are being reactive.
- Identify Godly Proactive People: Make a list of godly people you
are acquainted with that live life proactively. These are the kind of people
you want to be your mentors, spend time with, collaborate with, pioneer with
and play with.
- Record Valuable Life Lessons: Some Christians keep a journal or
a spiritual notebook to reflect on and learn from the past and to seek God's
will for the future. Write these things down and then at the end of the
week reread your journal and see if there are any common threads or
directions that need further exploration.
- Overcome Your Fears: Life can become boring and we can lose the
zest for living if we allow ourselves to get into a rut. Routines can be
healthy but ruts can be deadly. Once in a while be willing to get out of
your comfort zone. Don't let your present fear paralyze you. Living a life
without or at least with minimal regrets may mean courage to do something
new.
- Get Into Action: Once you commit to proactive living, (minimizing
regrets) the only thing left to do is get moving, get working on it, and get
going. In other words, DON'T PROCRASTINATE! Write out your life purpose,
your annual goals and your daily do list and get to work. Start small with
little steps, and as momentum builds you will find yourself naturally
engaging fully in life, naturally not holding back. As you begin this new
lifestyle, watch closely and notice what's different about your life. Let
others around you know that God has the final say in your life.
- Make Wise Decisions Daily: Life is all about making good decisions.
Finally, if we would lead lives without minimum regrets we must learn to lean
into the future. What does that mean? It means first and foremost, living in
light of eternity.